Is “finding one person and then never having to deal with another dating site message again” is awesome. Like my poly friends who are partnered keep on posting the awful OKC messages and what not they get, and I’m like “and I’m done, pretty much forever, thank christ”
Never.
Again.
Never, ever, ever again. Like my monogamy isn’t some romantic one true love thing, it’s a “Well thank god that’s over” thing. Dating and courtship are horrible, marriage is awesome, because you still get sex and you don’t have to leave the house for it.
That said, nobody can even compare to D