Alright So We All Know That Sex-Pos Is No Longer Fashionable (and rightly so, it had a lot of issues) but honestly, I do not want to see a backswing towards sex neg.

ardillafeminista:

thepeacockangel:

thepeacockangel:

I grew up with sex neg parents and a lot of my fucked up sex shit? A lot of the times I blamed myself for being a victim of rape and domestic violence?

Those are the results of growing up in a second wave feminist household. I grew up with that shit, and…

Sorry for my ignorance, maybe is the language barrier (English isn’t my first language) but I don’t get what’s the problem with sex pos? I mean, I thought it was about (sexpos) being ok with people who have sex and people who don’t and teaching how safe, happy consensual sex looks and feels like, am I misinformed? What you are talking about its nothing like what I thought sex pos was about

The ideas behind it are good ones, but it often got corrupted with a sort of “sex is an obligation” and “sexual desires can never be questioned” ethos

Alright So We All Know That Sex-Pos Is No Longer Fashionable (and rightly so, it had a lot of issues) but honestly, I do not want to see a backswing towards sex neg.