Um just tell me about what you’re into for starters (you’ll be kept anonymous), I’m looking for comments from women with these sorts of fetishes, and how they feel in the community surrounding their kink (if they’re involved in it) how partners react, and so on. My basic thesis is women like us are important A: Because the patriarchy sweeps women like us under the rug, so that female sexuality seems gentle, palatable and non-threatening so that women are easy to commodify. Male fetishists are often visible as both punchline and threat, but it’s much rarer that you see female fetishists shown this way because it makes female sexuality potentially “icky” which again, makes it harder to objectify women. Like if men have to acknowledge the breadth of tastes women have, it’s a lot harder to think “Yeah, I wanna hit that” because you’re wondering is “that” wants to fuck you in a bathtub filled with eels because she can’t get off any other way. Men live in blissful unawareness of women’s partialist fetishes, penchant for man on man action, and the women who just want to rub worn items of their partner’s clothing all over their body and B: WIth the more gore/violence etc based fetishes, we provide a model going forward of a group that has “shocking” kinks, but rarely if ever commits assaults, murder, rape or other crimes associated with people who have “violent” sexual desires.
It even ruins the fantasy of “hot lesbians” because you can’t help but wonder if those two babes are seriously into farting into gas masks.
Also still true
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 