Like a BDSM relationship is really just a relationship and the core dynamics aren’t “the dominant is dominant and the submissive is submissive” the core dynamic can be all sorts of things, and just because someone likes to be tied up, whipped, or humiliated doesn’t mean they can’t be coercive…
(Trigger warning: Rape and abuse) Why Is It So Hard For People To Grasp That Dominants Can Have Their Consent Violated Too?
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Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 