Thank you SO much for the “dommes can have their consent violated too” post. When I first started exploring my kinky side I assumed male subs would be naturally more respectful and admiring of women, but oh. My. Goddess. NOPE. I experienced more scummy, pushy, and rape-y behavior from “submissive” dudes than I ever got from vanilla dudes. Dudes trying to harass, coerce, or even blackmail me into fulfilling their personal fetishes. So let’s put that silly myth to rest. Preach!