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Yeah, this is definitely a decision I came to.
Yes, risk of homelessness and violence sucks, though frankly when I’ve been in relationships that were not straight passing (as in appeared queer to a standard observer) I wasn’t at high risk for that, you know as a white person in a liberal east coast city with a certain amount of money
I still received the benefits of my other privileges when I was not straight passing.
If you’re white and monied (as I strongly suspect you are, anon) you’re also not the one at risk of those things.