It makes me so angry, sad and scared that there are 14 year old girls on this site that are being brainwashed into thinking that BDSM is a positive, healthy and normal thing in a relationship. Guess what? IT IS NOT. It’s literal abuse. Why is wanting to hurt and humiliate the person you love considered a healthy thing? Stop brainwashing kids, you perverts. You make me SICK.
Found this on my dash this morning. I’m so fucking tired of this shit. Like, I’d rather they know it exists and be able to differentiate a desire for pain during sex and abuse, because I didn’t get that, and I ended up in a SERIOUSLY abusive relationship and I thought I deserved it because I got off on physical pain during sex.
So… no.
Also:
http://thepeacockangel.tumblr.com/post/89402162094/i-saw-your-post-in-the-kink-critical-tag-about
http://thepeacockangel.tumblr.com/post/90667695529/i-suppose-thats-where-we-differ-i-dont-feel-the
http://thepeacockangel.tumblr.com/post/93509214274/alright-so-we-all-know-that-sex-pos-is-no-longer
and most importantly:
http://thepeacockangel.tumblr.com/post/97144665359/trigger-warning-rape-and-abuse-why-is-it-so THIS