babewithnopowerarchive:

can we stop acting like surfing porn is a natural normal healthy part of discovering your sexuality and developing a healthy sex life

if anything will fuck up and harm your concept of sex and sexuality it’s scrolling through pages upon pages of ‘hot blonde slut gets her ass fucked by daddy’ and ’whore gets tied up and made to cum’ while ads for ’mercilessly fucked girls in free monster porn’ and ’18 & Abused!’ blink on both sides of the screen and fuck you if you’re saying any different

Please stop blaming misogynistic porn which is a symptom of misogynistic society for causing misogynistic society.  It places the blame on sex workers and on women and that’s fucked up and incredibly misogynistic.  Also the idea that porn inherently must be violent/is always violent is blatantly incorrect, it’s a type of media, not inherently misogynistic, there is perfectly nice porn out there.

A search of the term reveals as top search results: at most disturbing a lot of “porn debut” as a label and most entertainingly a video simply titled “

Homemade porn, loud, strong” a video titled “

Her first porn video she loves to fuck

“ well isn’t that nice, and the oddly specific compliment in the title of “

Katja kassin Video Porn My God BEAUTIFUL ASSHOLE

”

The impulse to see images of humans having sex is not an inherently violent impulse, the majority of porn in the world while misogynist as it caters almost exclusively to a male audience, is not violent, and at its most basic is pretty much the most basic stuff of fantasy (a partner who’s very aroused by you and very attractive doing the typical things)