Thinking about how conditional male privilege is at times, and how vulnerable men who violate the terms of it are.

I see the effects of that a lot at work.  Transgressing against masculinity is a very scary thing and I totally have props for dudes who do.

That said then it’s all actually really complicated because like when a woman enters a masculinized field she’s scorned and made to work twice as hard, a man enters a feminized field and he’s welcomed by the women there with open arms and usually ends up getting paid more.

I feel like things with that are complicated.