yeah i feel like that person has strictly defined BDSM in their own mind in a way that 99% of people don’t (selectively as consensual nonconsent and/or “lifestyle”) and doesn’t realize “kink” is generally interchangeable with BDSM

Yeah p much… and like also safewords can be very useful for people who have trouble saying “no” no is a hard word for a lot of people so its nice to have a synonym

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