Because like, while yeah, and thinking you’re done is really fucked up, it often feels very “NONE OF YOU ARE FREE OF SIN”-y and it gets used in really abusive ways.
I mean lately I’ve been thinking about how many mean spirited abusive personalities end up really owning in SJ spaces and like what mechanisms can safe guard against it without silencing people, or like policing people’s emotions, because like anger is often justified, but I’ve also seen some fucked up shit and IDK.
I mean I don’t like how witch hunt-y some spaces I’ve been in have gotten and even though I’m generally pretty good at navigating witch hunt-y SJ spaces (Like I’m weirdly good at that from a lot of practice) I feel like people who enjoy instigating witch hunts, people who often end up in leadership positions are maybe just not good people.
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 