Also you know how reproductive freedom means more than just the right to have an abortion

But also the right to reproduce? I think that valuing consent also must mean respecting and not questioning the validity of consent when people say they give it (obvs like drunkenness and shit change that but like when a person continually argues that they did and do consent that needs to be respected). You can’t respect a person’s autonomy if you don’t respect their yes as much as their no (which is not to say you have to consent to do whatever someone else consents to you doing, just respect that they can consent)

. It’s incredibly patronizing to deny the validity of another adult’s consent, if you don’t respect their yes, then you don’t really respect their right to say no, because you believe you are better qualified to make decisions for them than they are to make decisions for themselves