1. Not every lesbian has a vagina
2. There are lesbians who don’t like being penetrated
3. Acrylic nails aren’t sharp in most cases and are strong enough to use for g-spotting if you’re careful (you should clean your hands really thoroughly or wear gloves for this though cause nails can trap bacteria)
4. Many lesbians have tongues
5. There are these things called sex toys, which can be used in place of fingers if you don’t wanna cut your nails.
6. How come no one questions how sex with long nailed cis het dudes works (goth boys, classical guitar dudes)? Is it because “well he has a dick, obvs he doesn’t need to use fingers”? cause that’s a shitty argument and fuck you
7. I dated a girl with long natural nails for over a year and I’m a bottom and we managed fine.honestly im a lesbian without a vagina that doesnt like penetration and this post is really unnecessary imo
I have bit cut by long nails in my vagina, and I will never have sex with a girl with long nails, you don’t know pain until you have a scratch there seriously it hurt to live for like a week.0/10 would not do ever again.
Been scratched there kinda like it
Good for you? Acting like women who don’t want their vaginas or wherever else clawed to fuck are somehow wrong for talking about it is ridiculous.
op has been invested in how jokes about long nails is “femmephobia” for a while iirc….
Never said that and I never said that not wanting nails in your own bits was wrong merely that not everyone feels the same way, no one gives a shit whether you won’t fuck someone because of their nails or preferred brand of paper towels or whatever trivial shit matters to you in that department it’s just shitty to insist everyone feels the same
High femme queer woman w long nails (at least when I’m not super stressed) here who feels erased by those jokes… So yeah this post is necessary. I don’t like fingering people anyway, it squicks me out. I’d take a toy over fingers each time tbh…. Not a big fan of attempts to create a normative queer sexuality (thumbs down emoji)
Thank you
No one is creating a ‘normative q*eer sexuality’ open legit decided to create a list of alternatives to fingering with long nails, as some kind of response to stop people talking about not wanting their junk clawed to fuck, sorry women don’t want pain and infection from their sex. I’m a top and I at least respect my partners enough to cut my damn nails if we going to be engaging in that. No one gives a shit if you have long nails just don’t act like the majority of people want them near their junk ffs most cos dudes I’m friends with don’t like them round their junk when their getting tossed off either like, how is this even an issue?
How was I implying that most people want that, I said that people vary, also like that it can be done without hurting anyone, you just have to be careful, my partner never hurt me during fingering with her nails (except ironically when she had cut them down, then she scratched me to fuck) so experiences vary, not everyone finger bangs, why does other people not having the same preferences as you bother you so much?
Also I wasn’t complaining about not wanting their junk clawed to fuck, I am married, happily and personally don’t like giving penetration with fingers, I’m simply saying “hey you can have long nails and still have lesbian sex” because people seem to think it’s impossible, it’s not a response to anyone’s individual preference just to the idea that it’s impossible
Listen, stop taking issue with a set of people that don’t like a certain thing. At the end of the day all you’re doing is being noisy for no reason, like yeah people vary, and some people don’t like fucking with long nails, ot liking something is not ‘q*eer normativity’ or whatever pomo bullshit you wanna trot out, stop shaming people for using humour to express a boundary.
I’m not saying that anyone has to like anything, I’m saying that saying “nobody from group x likes thing y” when you mean “I don’t like thing why” is shitty and exclusionary and not necessary. Just say you don’t like the thing, you’re the one saying that someone with long fingernails must not “respect their partner”
Ultimately it’s not a big deal, I have no idea why you’re so upset by the idea that other people have sex differently from you.
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 