Cause like sub dudes frequently literally fetishize women’s anger at having their boundaries violated and a bunch of other gross shit.
Submissive dudes are not like some magical feminist fantasy, most of them are horrible and have terrible politics.
Which is not to say dominant dudes are not also generally a cesspool.
Why is it that whenever someone finds something attractive about someone they’re “fetishizing” it. Maybe people are just attracted to assertive women, and isn’t that a good thing?
When they get off on you being mad at them for touching you without your consent or because they stole your fucking underwear, then NO THAT IS NOT OKAY
You do realise most bdsm dosen’t revolve around rape play, or being “angry”. And if its actually consensual, even if it is rape play, what’s the problem?
I’m a prodomme, I deal with sub dudes gross ass confessions of stealing bits of their co-workers, family members and friend’s clothing. I’ve been doing BDSM for a long ass time. I’m very very familiar with it.
Speaking as a sub, I have never stolen someone else’s clothing, nor have I heard of that being a massive problem, now granted I’m pretty sure some sub’s are that sick but don’t put that on all of us
You know what the real problem with sub dudes is? The fact that you seem to be unable to tell the difference between the words “most” and “all”
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 