Cause like sub dudes frequently literally fetishize women’s anger at having their boundaries violated and a bunch of other gross shit.
Submissive dudes are not like some magical feminist fantasy, most of them are horrible and have terrible politics.
Which is not to say dominant dudes are not also generally a cesspool.
Why is it that whenever someone finds something attractive about someone they’re “fetishizing” it. Maybe people are just attracted to assertive women, and isn’t that a good thing?
When they get off on you being mad at them for touching you without your consent or because they stole your fucking underwear, then NO THAT IS NOT OKAY
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 