Run from him:

cultural-hoxhaist:

thepeacockangel:

femmerat:

thepeacockangel:

femmerat:

passivites:

peachglitch:

•if he disrespects his mom
•if he disrespects blue collar workers
•if he doesn’t tip or leaves loose pennies
•if he is mean to animals
•if he doesn’t touch you in public
•if he won’t tell his friends about you
•if he says “I’ve never been with a ____ girl before.”
•if he won’t address his female friends by name instead just calls them “a friend”
•if all his exes “are psycho”
•if he’s never worked a day in his life
•if he chooses a drug over spending time with you
•if he disagrees with feminism
•if he’s white and he throws around the N word
•if he isn’t proud of what you do
•if he makes rape jokes
•if you tell him you haven’t shaved down there and he quickly changes his mind about giving you oral
•if he chooses the music or movies without asking what you think
•if he voluntarily shows up late to pick you up
•if you catch yourself googling “what is an abusive relationship?”

Okay but some people cant afford to tip at all so yall better dump your financially unstable s/o

If you can’t afford to tip you can’t afford to go out.

Some people have abusive mothers.

Definitely. I think the op definitely has some problems and is excluding a lot of things like maybe he feels uncomfortable with pda, he’s asexual and is touch repulsed, maybe he’s never worked because he’s disabled or mentally or physically ill, maybe his mom is awful. However, I think tipping is mandatory in 99% of cases.

There are also a lot of countries where tipping isn’t a thing because they have one standard minimum wage, also like people who don’t have access to kitchens are kinda obligated to eat out so that’s definitely okay but also a shitty situation for everyone involved

that one “if all his exes ‘are psycho’” though 

fuck i hate men like that so much

 i was at fnm last week and this guy was listing all his exes and saying like “x was crazy. y was crazy” it was like ten women’s names. at the end i was just like “maybe that says something about you, not them…”

Even then sometimes it’s very easy once you’ve been groomed by one abuser to end up with a string of abusers, though yeah if he describes them as “psycho” that’s a huge red flag