overstep or try to identify too much with an experience they don’t really own – I’m thinking also of the posts about the politics and aesthetics of ~trashiness, which I feel complicated about… I understand on the one hand (as a sex worker, as a conscious rejection of Polite Society), on the other hand, it can run to feeling like trying a life on, you know? like rich kids shopping at Goodwill. people wear Mary Kay “for real” if that makes sense