All those things you do to make yourself prettier like makeup shaving and all that, is it a chore for you or do you enjoy them for the sake of it ? Because it sounds like being pretty requires hours of hard work with no guarantee of result, so am I supposed to give up on life or is it normal to suffer for it ? Also do you have an example of the “feminine” man you talk about ? Sorry if it bother you you are not obligated to answer

I don’t do it to be prettier per say, I do it because I have a certain aesthetic I work towards (weird sex barbie), I generally find a lot of the stuff soothing and something of a pleasure to do (though I hate getting my nails done, but I do it because I like having nails).  I don’t understand the second question, like if you don’t want to do beauty labor or find certain types unpleasant skip em’.  

As to feminine dudes, Brian Molko, young Brett Michaels, a helluva lot of Visual Kei bands, Prince…