Makes a lot of shit about power dynamics transcending role in BDSM play clear.
Like white dude subs refer to black men with the N word CONSTANTLY. SO FUCKING CONSTANTLY, but they also claim to view black men as superior and to want to worship them, but like if you actually had an iota of fucking respect for them you wouldn’t call them the fucking N word. You’re just fetishizing black men and reducing them to a single stereotype about a single body part and a bunch of ugly caricatures about primitiveness and hypersexuality.
People fixate exclusively on male dominance and female submission when talking about problematic elements in BDSM, without examining how just because someone is playing “dom” doesn’t actually mean they’re in charge. There are intensely gross and shitty things that are treated as acceptable within BDSM and most BDSM criticism is the most surface, unexamined shit which SUCKS when there are such big fucking problems to address.
Subs can be just as shitty and problematic.
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 