Cause like 1. Male strippers, escorts and so on exist. They just mostly see men.
2. Even if you got to see women, lol, no you wouldn’t, and not cause the women are unattractive or whatever, but because you don’t get that it is absolutely not at all about you. You’re at work, you’ve got to do work, meaning emotional and sexual labor to get your client in and make them happy and it’s not about your ego or personal satisfaction and like not in a way that “I love pleasing women” guy (ugh ugh ugh hate hate hate that guy) would like. Like if you were a dom, it’s like having to act like you really really want to watch your online sub drink a glass of her own pee, or like nothing would arouse you more than grabbing a lady twice your age who wears really headache-inducingly strong perfume and sticky hair product by the hair and stuffing your sweaty socks in her mouth or having a sub announce she steals one of her coworkers used kleenex out of the garbage and having to act amused instead of grossed out.
Or if you were a stripper you have to act like you’re super duper interested in and impressed by her job as a mid level manager at costco while having to keep every conceivable part of your body hairless and gyrating sexily close enough but not too close to her groin.
Or like if you were cam model you’d have women popping into your room, asking for your dick size, and then calling you a liar cause you won’t show them till they pay you.
(other sex workers feel free to add)
Having to invest time, money & effort into doing things to your appearance that you don’t give a fuck about & may actively dislike.
Pretending to come from having an unattractive person you have nothing in common with rub the spot on yr groin RIGHT NEXT to your dick.
Constantly trying to explain basic safer sex practices to people 20+ years older than you.
acting like you care about some middle-aged lady’s relationship problems
listening while she explains to you in loving detail how she can’t have an orgasm; smiling, nodding, making eye contact through the webcam, acting appropriately sad and sympathetic while she complains
staying sultry and sweet while some lady at her desk in a fucking pants suit tries to dicker you down for your per-minute rate over skype, one hand down her slacks the whole time you’re talking to her
getting on your public cam and posing yourself carefully before you actually start playing your video game; losing money when you turn up the difficulty and have to really focus on playing instead of talking to all the people in your chatroom
another girl tips for ANOTHER cumshow – this is number 4 tonight – oh god, HOW are you gonna get going for her?? SHIT. frantically contemplating the striptease opening credits scene of barbarella as you shove your hand down the front of your pants, moaning as loud as you can.
trying to look impressed when an old lady brags about how she has a boy like you in every town and all of the ‘tricks’ she uses to hide it from her “boring and pathetic” husband
sweetly nodding when she tells you how many boys like you she’s seen, that you won’t last more than a year and your youth and good looks will be ruined by then
trying to pretend an old lady you find physically and mentally repulsive just fills you with lust and desire and making it convincing
still trying to look turned on when she demands you enthusiastically lick her bad smelling and odd looking genitals
Holy shit, pepperoni. You nailed it.
Smiling sweetly and the thanking an old lady for the piece of “life advice” she gives you while laying in bed after a session, as if you asked for it in the first place.
Keep getting interrupted by the middle-aged woman, even when you’re talking about something you’re an expert in, and she has never heard of. Not correcting her, not interrupting her as well, not even commenting on the fact that you’re not allowed to finish a sentence.
Every thing of that is better than packaging post cards in a factory 10 hours a day 6 days a week
SO WHAT i’d love to that if i wouldnt have a small dick and that ugly face of mine and why the fuck do you all think its only men who think something like that thats fuckin sexism
We never said it wasn’t. We overall chose our jobs because they’re the best options avaliable to us.
This is a discussion of men who are like “I’d love to be a sex worker” only because they think they’d find it sexually pleasurable because they don’t understand it’s an actual job.
We’re not saying “Oh our work is SO SO miserable” or “No man could ever understand what it’s like to be a sex worker” (because as I said there are men who do sex work, there are quite a few of them) we’re saying “look at these clueless asshats who think our jobs are magical funtimes instead of you know jobs”
We make fun of women who act like this all the time too. Like we are doing here
And I mean like be a phone sex operator, or figure out what fetishes you fit into, most sex workers aren’t society’s idea of “perfect” or even “pretty” and I mean if you’re in a part of the industry where that shit’s involved, it’ll make you niche and you won’t earn as much but like y’ still find ways to get by, and I mean not all sectors of the sex industry involve your dick/face. Like there’s foot fetish porn and phone sex and all sorts of shit…
Oh but what I especially love with you is the blog full of stolen porn but you wanna be one of us.
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 