The idea that women are better than men (less violent, kinder, more nurturing etc) is misogynist because it excuses men’s bad behavior and holds women to a more rigid behavioral standard than men.
The idea that you can give women power over men and trust them not to abuse it the way men do power over women is bullshit and implies women are as passive and gentle as the patriarchy wants them to be and creates opportunities for abusers to abuse with impunity.
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 