Also like I went out alone with a lady friend (not a ladyfriend but a lady who is a friend) the other night to go dancing.  We got catcalled more than like ten fucking times just walking to the bar.  

Also some asshole called us a homophobic slur which was weird cause like yeah both pretty gay but we aren’t y’ know, together?  So like ??? HOW DID U KNOW?  

I don’t leave the house without male accompaniment a lot and I’d forgotten how bad it is.