barbieprivilege:

pizzaback:

polyamory is not inherently lgbt im so sick of seeing “polyamorous pride” shit. no Daniel having 2 girlfriends and a couple of fwb doesnt make you lgbt.

Hi, I’m Tim Gentrifierhaircut and I’m fucking my girlfriend’s best female friend which they’re both pretty uncomfortable with, so you could say I’m pretty queer. ☺️

I see a lot of this. Also many het primary couples treat their other partners like garbage. I’ve seen so many young bi/pan/etc women “unicorns” get treated like dirt and taken advantage of, often by older/economically advantaged couples and it is superbly gross.

IDK I read the ethical slut recently and like I feel like a lot of poly people don’t live up to the standards they set themselves and I think one of the reasons why I’m so attached to monogamy is I’ve seen so many shitty poly relationships, where non-primary partners are treated like experiments or after-thoughts and I just feel like you owe someone you like enough to fuck a little more kindness than that.