Me: *listening to How Soon Is Now*
D: Wait you’re Smiths upset, shit that’s really bad
Me: We’re talking about divorce, I’m worried about someone else I love self destructing or never forgiving me… I’m pretty upset
D: I mean I know you’re worried about divorce and whether a relationship you value deeply is incompatible with another relationship that you’ve long valued that’s since gone toxic but you don’t want to abandon it and the wellbeing of people you love, but I didn’t know you were *Smiths* upset.