We sorta realized that it was little day to day shit that was part of what was making our relationship go fucko and the fucked up thing is that that shit will be an issue in any relationship you have and so while you may fantasize about running off and living some dream life… well the dream life will still involve bills and squabbles about the dishes, and so pretty much any relationship you have will require you to do that work as part of what you have to do to keep shit good.
New relationships are fun because none of that is involved.
This probably sounds obvious as fuck but a reminder never hurts and like sorting out our mess might make a huge difference in how we deal with third parties… so yeah