inablackmirror:

thepeacockangel:

mashingitlikegailthesnail:

thepeacockangel:

cheyennecheyenne:

cheyennecheyenne:

is pussy as hard to come by as loser guys make it seem? cause I threw my pussy around the five boroughs for most of college and all you really needed to fuck me was to be kind of cute, kind of courteous, and pay for my food once

okay since one person has already tried to claim that my standards aren’t high enough, lemme make it clear that I was kinda joking there

my point remains though that some guys make it seem like you have to have the total package and be like, extremely rich and handsome and husband material and everything else just to get pussy and I know for a fact that that is not the case and mad guys get by on just being at least mildly good looking and willing to court a woman for just long enough to let her know he’s not complete trash

and all the guys I’ve seen make it like sex is so hard to come by are way bigger losers than they think they are, so.

And like diff. people have diff standards, with me I required no courtship, just like being ehhhhh not actively rude, but very very physically attractive by my standards

When I was into casual sex it was literally just do they have the right aesthetic & seem reasonably unlikely to cause me serious bodily harm (sometimes not even that)

I understand that statement on a DEEP level

idk I don’t really whine about it that much, especially cuz I’m bi and have a reasonably easy time getting sex from men, but sometimes I can only imagine (and sometimes do experience when I’m in a straight mood) how frustrated I’d be if I were straight…because I really don’t feel like women want to have sex with me. And maybe I would try harder at knowing the right way to figure that out if I was straight, so maybe I’m just unmotivated?…but the fact is trying to get a girl to bed feels nearly impossible to me. And I don’t think I’m ugly, because I’ve had numerous men inform me that they find me quite attractive…but I am short. So sometimes maybe that has something to do with it.

And I know now that I’ve said this someone is going to come along and tell me it’s because I’m really an asshole. I’m not going to say that’s not true, but I will say there are plenty of men out there who are bigger assholes than me getting laid by more women than me, and if I were truly that intolerable, I’d imagine getting men to bed would at least be less easy. 

tldr I find sex from women really hard to come by. Idk why. 

The lack of motivation sounds like a big factor to me.  Like it does actually take some digging to find a sexual partner in general and like it’s more so for dudes looking for a lady because of cultural norms and rules about women’s sexuality, tho also like if it’s online dating or they know you’re bi in general it might be a biphobia thing too and yeah shortness can def count against you.