neonbluebell
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But like, it IS internally consistent. Tops/sexual aggressors should be masculine, bottoms should be femme, according to that rhetoric. So there’s this weird correlation, at least to my experience, between sexual dominance and how they code themselves along that spectrum.

Nah cause from what I can tell a lot of gay male sexuality is about masc/masc interaction and like a lot of lesbian stuff for lesbians is about two people in skinny jeans with short haircuts goin’ at it…