Like it’s so easy for sexual situations to feel wrong and bad and off and for even consensual sex to be upsetting and traumatic and like also it feels like our lives have effects on our sexuality that go much further and in much more extreme directions than they do on a lot of the rest of our basic drives. Like no one needs to wear a big bird mask to feel into eating food.
It’s sort of the reverse of pop Freudianism. Like everything isn’t about sex, sex is about everything.