Well, I’ve got some news for you kids: Melania Trump can be both an irredeemable piece of racist garbage and a victim of domestic violence at the same time. Not all victims are good people.
Being abused doesn’t automatically magically make you moral, and it still counts as abuse even if you’re a flaming trash pile of a person.
We can condemn Donald Trump as an abusive piece of trash while acknowledging that Melania is also a profoundly shitty human being.