hrulnation replied to your post “I think this sums up my issue with sub dudes:”

That does make sense. I can only offer for me, if it’s too easy, a given, I’m not that interested. I NEED the pursuit, an element of uncertainty , chance of loss. ‘Thanks, mom’

“I’m only interested in women who aren’t interested me and I don’t perceive this as gross or problematic at all”