Why do people seem to think that kinky = straight?

I mean ESPECIALLY given the history of the leather community (gay as fuck) that’s some exhausting fuckin’ discourse right there. Like in my experience, when you go into BDSM communities they’re fairly heavy on the LGBTQ quotient.  Where do these people get the idea that BDSM scenes are populated entirely by male dominants and female submissives being straight and consumeristic and blah blah blah.

Like I don’t think the way I fuck is revolutionary or like of important to the materialist analysis of systems of oppression all that much, but like fetishistic weird sex has LONG been a part of gay culture.

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