I Wonder How Many Other

Sexual trauma survivors have sexual fantasy lives that feature almost no fantasies with themselves in them. I fantasise generally about two or more people who are not me. I fantasise sexually in the third person most of the time, especially when I’m having a hard time coping.

stuckuptumblercunt replied to your post “Also one of my subs can finally stop putting goddamned sharpies up his…”

Oh my god. This reminds me of desperately trying to convince a man to buy a proper sounding kit and stop SHOVING SHARPIES UP HIS DICK

They should market a line shaped like sex toys with the tag line “we know what you’re going to do with it anyway”

Also one of my subs can finally stop putting goddamned sharpies up his ass because I finally convinced him to buy an actual goddamned anal plug

drownedinlight:

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iwannabeadored:

I fucking knew this was about On the Road three screen caps in

What bothers me about this scene is that these girls said the exact same things.

“It’s not writing, it’s typing” is the same as “I hated this book.”
“The structure is not strong” is the same as “I had no idea what it’s about.”
One girl said Keruoac was on drugs while the other could name the drug.
One girl said it read like it was written in a hurry, the other knew it had been written in 3 weeks.
“His experiments in prose style are tedious” is the SAME THING as saying “boring and unorganized”

And I saw this sort of thing a lot in school. As an English major, if I’d said “I hated this book” I would have been lambasted or dismissed by the prof. But if I said “I wasn’t moved by it, I found it tedious” it would have been an insightful remark.

I’m so sick of this academic elitism.

But I sort of thought that’s why the second girl said what she said? Like she used more academic language, you’re right, but she’s completely echoing Kim’s statement. By prefacing it with, “I think Kim’s right,” she draws the attention back to the fact that Kim said it first, the paraphrases, then builds on what Kim said giving more information to support Kim’s claim. Like Girl 2 knows what’s up with the teacher’s bullshit and she’s not about to let it go down. I think the point of this scene is to condemn academic elitism, not to support it. Especially with the look between them at the end.

The first fanfic I ever put online was shipping them when I was12

I feel like a lot of the shitty dynamics that crop up on the left are the result of traumatized people who haven’t dealt with their shit sufficiently to be able to do organization effectively trauma bonding and forming unhealthy group dynamics.

And like there’s genuinely, really truly nothing wrong with being in too fucked up a place to do political work. No one’d be expecting you to do work place organizing while you were in traction after a skiing accident, trauma’s the same way. Heal up *then* organize.

Ever notice how whenever a tarot deck artist is like “Hm, better add a little token diversity, gonna make one of the Queens Black” it’s always the Queen of Pentacles?

It’s always the freaking Queen of Pentacles and I think that’s super weird.

Move past hurt, let yourself heal so you are strong in the broken places, and pick yourself up and move on. #dailytarot #queenofswords #slowholler #slowhollertarot #thestar #tarot #tarotgram #tarotdecks #tarotreadersofinstagram #sixofswords #cardslinger #quartz #auraquartz