redqueentarot:

I’m having trouble getting this system, and I learn better with actual questions

lambrini-socialism:

br-o-ken-poetry:

– someone’s eating habits

– appearance issues that can’t be fixed there and then

– someone else’s “bad” decision if it can’t now be undone

– someone’s laugh or voice

– someone’s “unrealistic” dreams

– someone “not looking their best” in photos

– someone not wanting to do something and trying to subtly avoid it without making a fuss

– anything that you know will make someone self conscious or insecure unnecessarily

– appearance full stop tbh

Nah, there’s the five second rule with that
For example:
Something stuck in their hair? Tell them, they can fix it in a second
You think their dress looks bad? Takes more than five seconds to fix, they’re not going home to change for you, bucko.
Lipstick on their teeth? Less than five seconds to fix, tell em’
Lipstick you don’t like the color of? More than five seconds to change (because they’re probably not carrying another color) don’t tell em’
Skirt tucked into undies, tell em, quickly fixable.

Basically, ignore matters of taste, tell em about wardrobe malfunctions and stuff stuck to them