I’d really like a character who looked like me but also got to be a three dimensional complex human being

Like in media, especially comics, my body type is not just represented but over represented but it almost exclusively appears in works written by douchey bros who hate women and can’t write for shit. I’d like a character who looks like me in an ensemble cast of women with diverse body types, and she’s dolled up and that’s part of who she is, but it’s not all and she’s not presented as better or worse than her friends, she just has a look she likes doing and does it, and even though she loves heels and leopard print miniskirts she’s not always sexy or sexual.

TBH I’d like to see nudity desexualized because I feel like it would make for a clearer line between sexual and non-sexual nudity, which are different things and our failure to differentiate them sexualizes people in non-sexual contexts in a gross way.