Tag: class

I feel like if I could phrase it right the “I am a hot sexy prole chick, unlike your frigid kale eating bougie wife, and you bourgeois losers all drool over me, but obviously I like that realmanTM prole dick and so I just take your money and go fuck my probably-a-petty-criminal boyfriend” angle WOULD WORK SO WELL on subs

bimbotoysforprettyboys:

taxidermygirl:

…I found this on my hard drive, I think I made it after a week of celibacy and two nights without sleep.  What the fuck brain?

A thing I made at 20… oh younger me.

I made this when I was 20 and I feel like A: it’s very me at that age, and B: actually brings up a lot of the points I was just talking about in terms of discourse surrounding sexuality that exists within erotic content, at the time I was coming to terms with vastly reduced class status and respectability and like that theme has shown up repeatedly in my sexual fantasies ever since so like… IDK it’s interesting.

I Feel Like The Proletariat Is Under A Lot More Pressure to Be “Moral and Respectable” Than The Bourgeoisie Is

Like prole girls are slut shamed more, our sexualities are pathologized constantly, we have to worry a lot more about seeming like good housekeepers, wives, and mothers because our housekeeping, wifely behavior and mothering is constantly policed… we’re told we’re too loud, too slutty, too slovenly, too selfish and neglectful of our children…

Working class men are under constant pressure to “be men” and look and act appropriately respectable and “manly” but also they’re pathologized as Stanley Kowalski style brutes (even though I’ve met far more brutes who were frat boys than proletarian brutes) also like bougie dudes are way more likely to get an “Awww” when they’re portrayed doing domestic labor and prole dudes are way more likely to be accused of being emasculated…

IDK if we’re not “nice and respectable and deserving” we can be tossed from the relative safety and security of the “stable” working class into the hard living lumpen proletariat…

bubblegum-pwussay
replied to your post “TBH if you married a rich dude to be supported”

Woman shouldnt be judge for marrying a rich man and expecting him to be a decent human being

Here’s the thing though, if he’s supporting you, and he’s rich.  He’s essentially paying you to be married to him.  Now he’s rich, he’s not paying you for domestic labor, he can hire a housekeeper and a cook if he wants and if he’s that rich, he’s specifically choosing to marry a woman who cannot earn as much as he does supporting her through education or whatever…okay maybe, but if he’s saying “okay, you stay home” he’s choosing that for a reason and that reason isn’t “he loves you and wants to take care of you” that reason is power.  The reason will always be power.

Like happening to end up taking care of your partner is one thing, and it’s also a very different thing for a working class or like non-rich person to support their partner (which is usually because the domestic labor is helpful), but if you’d be screwed without them but they wouldn’t be screwed without you, there’s a pretty obvious power dynamic and I feel like people like to pretend love conquers all and transcends class barriers and all that, but it doesn’t, money’s still a thing, power’s still a thing and like the person with power over you, even if they were a super good, super benevolent person (which if they’re rich, given the way the world works, they’re probably not source included) they’re still human so what do you think’s going to happen when you have a fight?  What do you think’s going to happen when they feel underappreciated, or like they’re not getting all the love and attention they deserve (and are used to because they’re rich and used to getting their way)?

Also science proves rich people are straight up bad people:

A source on cross class marriages 

A book on the wives of rich men

Rich people are straight up more likely to lie cheat and steal

Powerful (and rich) men are more likely to cheat

And another study confirming that yes indeed, rich men are really really really prone to being chronically unfaithful

“Men were also more likely to cheat if they made significantly more than their spouses, while women who made a lot more than their husbands were less likely to be unfaithful.

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Men with stay at home wives are more sexist

Rich people are selfish

Rich people are literally willing to steal candy from children

And they think it’s good that they behave this way

Expecting a rich man not to cheat is like expecting a sheep not to eat a flowerbed. 

Actually expecting a rich man to simply behave like a decent human being ever is frankly asking a bit much.  So like marry rich by all means, but don’t make the mistake of trusting the fucker.