I really want to know what they think sex should be like?

Like no one is like “ZOMG the commodification of food” or “ZOMG the commodification of massages” so why sex?

Like isn’t it implicit in that message that sex is somehow “special” 

Sex’s “specialness” is what men use to demand feminine “purity”

Sex’s “specialness” is what society uses to justify the rape of women who sleep around.

The idea that sex should be special is utterly rooted in patriarchy and is founded on the denigration of women.