Can they not help it?  Why does this always happen?  Also like maybe try not being so startling?  Like even if you look like a giant skeleton you don’t have to burst through doors, also like “hey it’s me, sorry if I scared you” would go a long way to getting you listened to.

Also why are they always so cryptic?  Like even if you only get so many words “Don’t marry the Baronet” is as many words as “beware of crimson peak” and much clearer.