Also as a sex worker and former domestic worker, you know what’s FUCKED about being a live in domestic?
That “almost but not quite” a part of the family dynamic that goes on. You’re like a dog to them, they expect to have bought your loyalty and love entirely, while to them you are replaceable if you become inconvenient.
You wanna talk about exploitive paid intimacy, let’s talk about your nanny, let’s talk about your maid.
I feel like SWERFs don’t understand how petty and sadistic bougie women can be and usually are towards female domestic staff.
They label us whore, they label us victim, they label us “friend”, they label us help, they label us invisible, they label us object, they label us wife, but they never label us worker.
Just so you know.
Or mostly just like not do domestic labor for dudes if you aren’t getting paid and to absolutely refuse to self sacrifice to a degree greater than the dude in question does for you.
Thoughts From The Peacock Angel 