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Some Tips For Getting A ProDomme To Like You

  1. Spend LOTS of money, and pay before demanding any labor (duh, obvious.
  2. Have fetishes that aren’t unpleasant/labor intensive for us to perform (the more uncomfortable the fetish wear you want us to wear the more likely it is we don’t like you, preferring cuffs to rope if they aren’t explicitly a rope top is A+++)
  3. The more creative and interesting your fantasy the better, I have clients who included like elaborate outlandish/creative role play scenarios and I love them the most, and like I had one call with a guy that was just four hours of elaborate world building of like a kinky fantasy world.  It was awesome.
  4. Check if we’re in a comfortable position during footworship and if you’re kneeling HOLD UP OUR LEG, holding it in one position forever is exhausting.
  5. Crossdressers who bring their own makeup and especially makeup brushes will end up looking a lot better than those who don’t.
  6. Don’t whine about the rules, they’re there for a reason.
  7. Speak up if you’re having a bad time during the session, not after.
  8. Never EVER use the phrase “Whatever you want” unless you really mean WHATEVER including non-bdsm activities and me just going and reading my book.
  9. If we’re doing a cam session or whatever, pay for the time used in doing costume changes you want.  It’s just polite.
  10. Don’t be offended if we lie to you about our personal lives, they’re called personal lives for a reason.