It Makes Me Really Uncomfortable When Men I Don’t Know

Open conversations with comments about my appearance… actually people in general, unless they’re asking for makeup/styling/hair/whatever tips, then it’s fine… but just like general comments, though like complimenting my makeup for hair is usually okay, but like “wow you’re gorgeous” especially if followed by “ever go to *their presumed location*” makes me feel like their plausible deniability hitting on me  and I hate that shit

Dear Leftist Bros Of Facebook

Stop whining about how everyone else has “bad politics” and about your utter disdain for the rest of the left.  Pull your goddamned pants up and do some actual goddamned political work if you want things to get better, but you actually don’t, you just want to wank on about how much smarter you are than everybody else and write smug condemnations of “identity politics” while endlessly talking over women and POC.  If you’re so upset about the left, either fix it or fucking leave, people like you scare newbies out of the movement with your endless fucking shitty complaining and complete lack of action. 

You somehow manage to be nearly as unbearable to be around as objectivists.  Congratulations and fuck you. 

Also The Other Day I’d Ducked Outside A Restaurant To Take an NF Call

and this random dude walks up to me while I’m still taking the call, and just like… waits… and waits… and waits, because the dude was taking an effing long time to come.  

Finally he hands me his cell with the note taking thing open and I see “Are you interested in sunday evening, donation?” and so I took his phone and wrote back “What?” because like maybe he recognized me from an ad, maybe he didn’t, but anyway then D came out and chased him off.

Also IDK why but “normal” dudes who are into “insert subculture” ladies

are fucking creepy.

It’s like, subculture-y people date other subculture-y people, sorry, but like I don’t spend this much time keeping my purple bangs purple and applying eyeliner to bang some dude in a polo shirt.

People who have an intense “look” go out with other people who have an intense “look”

Like a punk’ll date a goth, or a metalhead or whatever other sort of weird looking on purpose person, but like yeah, if you’re not into them because you have something in common it seems really fetishizing.

Also that one dude who was like “Breasts are a non-sexual part of the anatomy and if you don’t know that you have a lot to learn about feminism, you should send me a photo of your boobs” to someone on a dating site (the post has been floating around but I can’t find it)

Like, um… if a random dude asked for a photo of my feet I wouldn’t give it to him either because I know what you want it for, motherfucker.  Just cause it’s not a sex organ doesn’t mean women are obligated to send you photos of it.

Requests for photos of individual parts of another person’s body are A: Rude if you’re not intimate and B: Transparently about you wanting jack off fodder