but ALSO ALSO can we just acknowledge that the way that fucking show used the idea of the “Friendzone” is less fucked and terrible than the way dudes are using it now?  Cause like in the show it was basically “If you want to be with a lady, you have to make a move relatively early on” (which like is false, but also making your intentions clear is a VERY VERY good thing).

And now it’s like… somewhere where women put… men who are nice to them?

Yeah… fuck that nonsense.

At least Friends placed the onus on the person with the crush to make a move.