Which is not to say fuck your pain in general if you are a man. There are a lot of reasons for dudes to have pain and those are perfectly legitimate and I feel for you.
However when you believe your pain exists or is worse because you are a man (and is not dysphoria etc related, obvs) then fuck you, you fucking exhausting needy fuck. God I’d love to see you try having non-man pain and see how that goes (it goes badly, it goes very very fucking badly)