any guy who’s with a woman and not getting cheated on/getting laid is an alpha/Chad/whatever they’re calling it now and so like you can kind of hang them on their own ideology. Brian Molko is 5’6 and dainty and pretty and a Chad by their logic. My pretty androgynous goth husband? CHAD af. My gentle feminist stay-at-home dad? CHADAMUNDO BBY.
Tag: gender roles
The idea that femininity resides in being smaller/weaker/less than/whatever sucks. Femininity is not passivity, submission, or fragility, those are not where the feminine resides.
There’s nothing wrong with being smaller or weaker or what have you, but like that’s not a healthy place to place your ideas of what makes you feminine if you want to feel feminine (or like even if you don’t, cause like everybody’s smaller/weaker/etc than somebody)
Men are very proud of
their muscles.
The Fascinating Woman
Thanks for that insight, book.
You know what’s weird about heterosexuality and gender roles?
Women who are supposed to love thing that are pretty and impractical, to care for beauty and decoration and charm are supposed to act exactly counter than their supposed nature when choosing a mate, to choose what is practical and not pretty, and men who are supposed to care for what is tough, sturdy, practical with no concern for beauty are supposed to become aesthetes when choosing a mate… IDK gender roles and heteros are weird.