Body hair fetishists are one of the reasons I am so religious about hair removal

Cause like smooth is neutral. Smooth is not generally something dudes get worked up over. It’s more about “not a negative” than an actual positive.

Dudes who are into it get ready into it and it’s usually with the whole “ooh it’s disgusting and grotesque so it gets me hard” logic (with sub dudes it’s like “it’s grotesque so it humiliates me” with Dom dudes it’s like “it’s grotesque so it humiliates you”) and that shit’s gross and the thought of them fapping is so horrific to me I shave even when I’m lazy cause I want that shit nowhere near me

I Love How Mystery Authors (Especially Female Ones)

Assume that the blonde, fake boobed bits of fluff with which they equip attractive male criminals (who lady detectives swoon over) are stupider, sillier, and less brutal than their male counterparts, I also love how they make them meaningless accessories to their “golden hearted gangsters” like somehow their toughness, and willingness to do what it takes to survive or to escape a hellish background is to be censured where on a man who actually kills and intimidates people it’s vaguely admirable.

Gross.  Bougie bitches wanting tough scary prole dudes and trying to throw prole women under the bus are gross.

Being reminded that I’m almost certainly going to spend the rest of my life in a society where I have to deal with being on the wrong side of patriarchy on a daily basis is really depressing. It’s just like “Oh right, to a lot of people I’m not really quite a person, thanks for reminding me.”

Male Stoicism is backed up by an incredible amount of emotional labor from women

Like men are able to get away with never expressing of requesting help with their feelings because women are trained from a very young age to observe men, watch for signs of emotional need and environmental stressors and deal with them without being asked.  It’s why women worry constantly about emasculating the men in their lives but men never worry about “efeminating” the women in their lives.

Men are “stoic” only because they don’t have to communicate in order to get their emotional needs met.