Tag: prodomme

New findomme listing and possibly the best thing I’ve ever written:

Hello there my little bourgeois piggie, I know what you are, and I know what a greedy little swine like you needs.  You see, I already know your type, the only thing that you love more than money is women like me, cruel, beautiful and ready to take you for every last cent you have, ready to use my beauty and charm and your money to destroy you.

I absolutely despise men like you, you’re weak, mewling, pathetic, just begging to be crushed under the boot heel of communist power. You bourgeois are all the same, wealth has made you soft, with all that comfort you’ve let yourself go to seed, it’s made you complacent, an easy mark.  You are not a man, you are a flabby useless coddled thing and see, piggie, the revolution is coming, and you will not be able to fend it off and that means pigs like you are going to be up against the wall, on the chopping block, in short liquidated.

So, really the only way to save yourself from this fate is to give in to me now, surrender before it’s too late, accept my dictatorship of the proletariat.  Accept your place and turn your property over to the party, accept that in this new society we shall have no gods, no masters, and bourgeois swine like you shall have but one goddess and mistress, me.

Do this, and you will be allowed to lick the boots of your new superiors when the time comes, and grovel like the curr you are for a moment of my attention, and you will count yourself lucky.

What you call yours is rightfully mine, and with my perfect body and exquisite face, I will not only reclaim my property, I will make you thank me for taking it from you.  Are you ready to fund your own destruction, piggy?  Are you ready to accept the new order?

I Identify So Much With Severin In Venus In Furs

it’s not even funny, I’m like “I know that feel, Henry Sacher Masoch-bro” with the desire for the unattainable object of desire, the ideal love being a lover of whose love you are unworthy because clearly you’re with the best possible partner then, they have greater value than you and so in a weird way you’ve won.

The objectified ideal dominant, who enjoys using your desire for them against you is almost never what real dominants get off on, but my understanding of the desire for this untouchable ideal of desirability, of beauty is what makes me a good prodomme, because I know what they want because of what I want

I’m Terrible

Me:Would you (my clients) be interested in buying audio recordings of erotica I’ve written
Sub: Do you have any mommy domme erotica
Me: *rubs hands together and cackles malevolently* …technically yes but I am 200% sure it is not the thing you are looking for.

I am COMPLETELY fascinated by your work. It’s genuinely amazing and I was wondering if you had any advice for someone interested in taking on the dom lifestyle? I’m sure you’ve answered this question a thousand and one times but, if you could answer it one more time, I’d be so appreciative.

My first piece of advice is that for me it is a job and not a lifestyle.  Lifestyle I’m a submissive.  It’s work, much like any other work.  A lot of people seem to think it’s all glamour and ease and doing whatever nasty things you want to rich men who pay you lots and lots of money while you wear fabulous clothes.

The reality is answering a lot of emails, doing a lot of emotional labor, doing a lot of self promotion work, and indulging the kinks of people with enough money to pay you.  It’s a job and it’s not an easy job.  It’s a job that requires skill with the equipment, and business sense, and organizational and people skills.  The pay check can be very nice, though it can also be very feast or famine and if you aren’t on the ball, and hard working you won’t make money.

My major advice is have someone you check in with, know your legal codes, use a lot of lysol and clorox wipes on your gear, don’t let clients bully you, don’t go in thinking that this is about you as a person or expecting some kind of personal enlightenment or development of personal awareness, treat it as a job and you’ll be a lot happier doing it if you choose to do it.

That said there are a lot of young women out there these days who think they want to do this because it seems “edgy” or “cool” or “fun” without realizing that it is in fact a job.

Join IU 690 of the IWW while you’re at it.  We’re awesome

Oh, and don’t undercut my goddamned rates, I gave you advice so that’d be in pretty bad form.

If you’re actually hoping to be a lifestyler and not a pro, my main piece of advice is: Remember lifestyle dommes are in huge demand so you can be as choosy as you please.