I Feel Like The Dynamic With Submissive White Dudes Fetishizing Black Dudes

Makes a lot of shit about power dynamics transcending role in BDSM play clear.

Like white dude subs refer to black men with the N word CONSTANTLY.  SO FUCKING CONSTANTLY, but they also claim to view black men as superior and to want to worship them, but like if you actually had an iota of fucking respect for them you wouldn’t call them the fucking N word.  You’re just fetishizing black men and reducing them to a single stereotype about a single body part and a bunch of ugly caricatures about primitiveness and hypersexuality.

People fixate exclusively on male dominance and female submission when talking about problematic elements in BDSM, without examining how just because someone is playing “dom” doesn’t actually mean they’re in charge.  There are intensely gross and shitty things that are treated as acceptable within BDSM and most BDSM criticism is the most surface, unexamined shit which SUCKS when there are such big fucking problems to address.

Subs can be just as shitty and problematic.

Like The Fact That Reproductive Care Provably Discriminates Against Marginalized People

and denies them access to true reproductive choice (through forced sterilization, discrimination and other nasty bs), is the other side of the coin that closes down clinics and makes the number of hoops one has to jump through to receive an abortion impossible for people without a certain amount of privilege

Both of them are statements of “I know when you should reproduce, not you”

It is an absolute necessity that we seize control over our own reproductive systems from state run institutions.  (also I think the medical gatekeeping done for trans people and trans women in particular may also be a part of this,  because trans women being women participate in social reproduction as women, even if they cannot give birth yet, and because it shares the same quality of state scrutiny of reproduction and choices pertaining to reproduction, for example the mandate that one must be sterilized to have one’s ID changed, is again the state regulating who is not allowed to reproduce, as well as deciding who must be forced to reproduce)

I also think the fact that the eugenics movement featured both positive eugenics (increasing the birthrates of certain groups) and negative eugenics (reducing the birthrates of other groups) is again very telling.  One could very well have a system where abortions are denied to some and forced upon others at the whim of the state, which is essentially what I feel to be happening.

Very few places have outright banned abortion, instead they’ve put in series of hoops one must jump through in order to be allowed one, and left more and more of it up to the discretion of doctors and the like, and you are still seeing forced sterilization of women in the massive American prison system and WOC pressured into sterilization in general, you are still seeing trans people being lied to about their reproductive options.  The curtailing of abortion rights and the regrowth of forced sterilization are not opposed to one another, in fact they are ultimately towards the same end: Control of reproduction being taken from the reproducers and given to bourgeois state authority. 

Maybe I’m outside of my lane here… but I feel like the link between these phenomenons is important.

Rockabilly was invented by black people so like maybe cutting out the confederate flag crap would be nice, it’s like taking another kid’s toy and then licking it so they don’t want it back but with an additional history of genocidal violence…