Like I know that het women generally find porn aimed at het dudes gross and het dudes find porn (romance novels and fanfiction and the like) aimed at women gross… but like if you can’t look at what your partner faps to without getting upset… like how’s fucking them going to work?

(I’m aiming this at het couples because although not all SG couples are perfect I feel like I don’t see this behavior as much)

Look into eachother’s fuck-abyss and be cool with what you find there (squidmonsters, cosplay orgies… whatever) or be with someone else.