Tag: sex work

Some Tips For Johns (Sex Work Consumers)

  • What does hiring a sex worker entitle you to? It entitles you to the service agreed upon within the terms agreed upon, or a refund.  If you break the terms, you are not entitled to a refund.  If you shower a stream of insults at your plumber while they’re working they are entitled to leave and not give you your money back.  If an extra was not pre-negotiated you are not entitled to it.
  • Once you have paid you are entitled to the amount of time agreed upon, or a refund for the percentage of time left unless you break the agreement in which case you are entitled to nothing.  It’s like the warranty on your iPhone, you throw it into a pot of boiling water, you don’t get a refund.  If you have to leave the sex worker gets to keep the whole fee, they cleared that block of their day for you, so you pay for the whole session.
  • If a worker doesn’t offer the service you want you are entitled to take your business elsewhere.  You don’t go into a French restaurant and argue with the manager about the place not serving tapas.
  • Hiring a sex worker entitles you to be communicative about your needs, if things are not working for you, please tell the sex worker during the service so we can do something about it, if you complain afterwards it sounds like you’re angling for free services or a refund.  If you do not tell the worker then they can’t correct it.  If it turns out the service you purchased does not meet your needs then that is on you, if you hire a party clown and realize half way through you wanted a princess party that’s your damage.
  • If you can’t afford services that sucks, capitalism’s a dick, ain’t it?
  • They are not obligated to give you extra time
  • They are not obligated to like you
  • If you haven’t paid/they haven’t agreed to the terms you are entitled to nothing.  Throwing money at someone doesn’t entitle you to anything.  You can’t just hire someone without consulting them
  • They are at work. If that ruins your fantasy tuck it away but keep it in the back of your mind so you don’t behave like a dick.
  • If your fantasy is to rescue them, tip extra, they hate you.
  • If your behavior would make a server spit in your food, your behavior is making the sex worker hate you.