Also I need to talk to another SW

About a monogamy thing. Preferably someone who does cam or porn…

I love hanging out with my best SW friend

and bitching about clients and she’s so pretty and sweet and has awesome politics and being around her just makes me really happy because we can talk about video games and makeup and never get TMIed by each other’s work stories or general sex stories and we can be super gross and then do femme stuff and it’s just awesome.

NGOs that target sex workers

Exploit the sexual labor of sex workers for the profit and social capital of a select few higher ups.

Also

The fact that women who look like strippers (sex worker tumblr ya’ll know what I mean) are assumed to be heterosexual is so bizarre to me.

Like if there’s a group of professions more filled with WLW than sex work IDK what it is.

I Wish There Were More Depictions Of People Who Look Like Me

With the types of people I’m actually attracted to/as people with personalities and minds and such.

Most media with women who look like me tends to write women as pretty 2-D, and put us with manly type male power fantasy doodz.

I Love Telling Forced Fem Subs

“This wouldn’t be humiliating to you if you didn’t have totally warped reactionary ideas about gender. The only one making this humiliating for you is yourself.”

I Was Telling One Of My Sex Worker Friends About What I Do To Clients Who Try To Get My Goat/Waste My Time

I try to sell them a blender and now she’s going to do it too. Can we make trying to sell time wasters The Magic Bullet a thing?

Can we make this a collective action?

Am I the only one who’s kinda uncomfortable

When other sex workers make fun of working class dudes while praising bougie dudes?

Like take his money, by all means, and like focus your energies on what gets you paid and don’t let anyone demand unpaid labor from you (a dude who expects as much emotional labor as a client who doesn’t pay like a client, nuh-uh, no way) but don’t be a snob, you’re a member of the working class too. I’m not saying ‘date poor dudes’ or whatever, like I said, get paid, get the lifestyle you want, but just… don’t say mean shit about people because they’re poor, it’s a shitty thing to do.

And also like it makes me sad when I see sex workers acting like they oughta be grateful to this dude for paying for their labor… even if he’s paying you real well, you’re still doing a job, it’s a paycheck, not charity. You shouldn’t have to get all ring kissy over that crap.

Hey

So… off the cuff question does any domme in Portland need someone for a double this weekend?

I really want to go to the BRRN convention but I can’t afford to unless there’s a way for me to work during.