But y’ know there’s the sister who drunkenly crashes her car through the side of your garage at Thanksgiving and tries to hit on your teenage daughter’s boyfriend and says shitty passive aggressive things about your body constantly and calls you selfish when you won’t chauffeur her everywhere after her license gets suspended and borrows your clothes and doesn’t return them/returns them with stains you don’t even want to think about… So I mean yeah we’re all sisters, but like some of us are going to have to really sort out our behavior before we can expect to get invited to family barbecues again